January 23, 2013

Organising a Lunch or Dinner-Issues

Nyonya fare
In some ways, getting old friends and colleagues together annually to re-bond can be gratifying.

The organiser, with the best of intentions, emails,phones and sms his colleagues to get an indication of  attendance.

He then scouts for a good restaurant and then selects the menu.

Then on  the day itself, he hopes there will be an ardent photographer at hand, to capture the memories of the fleeting moments of camaraderie.

On the downside, do expect this.

Some of these colleagues, perhaps been cocooned for too long in their own lives and having a 'separatist mindset' , will get cold feet and come up with an array of flimsy excuses like house renovation and even teaching their kids driving, to get in the way of attendance.

Surprisingly, you also have to attend to those "warring" factions who are insistent of not attending if so and so attends.

Then there is the bill settlement issue.

It is alright if someone sponsors.

If not, expect the possibility of some non-payment.

So, for large gathering, best to get a buffet offering and collect the money up front.

These are some of the trials and tribulations of being an organiser.

So, watch out for them and do not expect full attendance.

Then you would not be disappointed.

Koon Yew Yin-A Life of Joyful Discipline

Living a Life of Joy
This man has exhibited a healthy life well lived thus far.

We should learn from both his physical and mental discipline to enjoy the best that life can offer us.

Here is Mr Koon's testimony and legacy.


Koon Yew Yin

1st Jan 2013

On 28th Dec 2012, I celebrated my 80th   birthday. A few guests asked me how I have managed to live so long and happy. I am sure all of you would like to know how I did it. Even my cardiologist said that I may be holding the Malaysian record for being alive after inheriting a blood cholesterol disease and having undergone heart bypass surgery in May 1983. Moreover, I do not have aches and pain which are common for elderly people.

This is what I do:

1. Every day I walk for around 15 minutes in the morning and 15 minutes in the evening. When there is rain, I walk about in my house.

2. I must remember that physical movement will reduce stress which can shorten my life. As I spend most of my time on the computer, reading, writing or watching TV, I must not sit down for more than one hour at a time. I must stand up and walk a few steps.

3. I have developed a habit of taking a few deep breaths whenever I remember. I can do it at any time, while sitting, driving or waiting for something. I always take a few deep breaths before I go to sleep.

4. When I wake up I usually drink 2 glasses of water. I eat only fruits and drink a cup of coffee for breakfast. Pineapple is my favourite fruit. I do not eat anything until lunch. In between I may drink some water. In this way I can keep my weight down.

5. I drink one glass of wine with my lunch and I have a nap for about an hour. I also drink another glass of wine before I sleep every night. Wine will improve blood circulation and reduce stress.

6. After my afternoon nap, I make a pot of Chinese tea which keeps me awake so that I can enjoy the rest of my day.

This is what I do for my mental health:

Always keep your mind occupied by reading, writing, playing computer, managing my  share investment or watching TV. This will slow down the loss of memory.

1. Although I have completely retired from executive work as company director for which I was paid, I am now working harder and longer hours than before and no one pays me a salary. I find working is the most wonderful entertainment and I enjoy doing what I am doing.

2. After having lived for so long, I accept human weaknesses and forgive those who irritate me. Why should I feel angry just because someone misbehaves? I have only a few close friends and they do not mind if I do something stupid.

3. Avoid working more than an hour at a time, have a short break. Take a holiday once a week. Occasionally go for longer holidays for a change of environment.

4. I must mention my wife’s important contribution. She takes care of my daily needs without which I would not have lived so long and happy.

5. I love my wife, I love myself and people in general. I enjoy all the good things in life.

6. I also love music, especially classical music. It keeps me calm and smoothen my life. I think it also keeps my blood pressure down.

7. I frequently see my doctor to check my blood pressure which is most important if you want to live a long life.

Attitude:

I always try to create happiness . I must always remember that when I die I cannot take anything with me. I will spend almost all my wealth to help poor and needy people. I concentrate my charity in helping poor students to complete their tertiary education. I believe education is the best way to help poor families.

Those students whose family income is less than RM 2,000 per month can apply for my scholarships as advertised in website: Lim Kit Siang blog or cpiasia.net. I have given scholarships to more than 100 poor students. I frequently I receive letters informing me that they have passed their final degree exam and I would feel so happy and satisfied.

All my scholarship recipients do not need to repay the money I spent on them. Instead, they have to promise me that when they are in a good financial position, they must remember that when they needed help, I helped them and that they must help other poor students. I will die happily knowing that this change effect will create more charity workers.

The key to my success:

The biggest obstacle to success is fear. The greatest failure is lack of faith and the root of all failures is egotism.

You are in control of your life. You can choose either to be happy or sad. One very easy way to be happy is to appreciate what you already have and that you do not need any more. Always count your blessings.
I wish you and your family a happy new year.

Koon Yew Yin

This is the Life!

And so life is fine wine, every day!

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